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Decluttering Christmas

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This year we have decided to take the “stuff” out of Christmas. I find myself getting stressed about Christmas earlier and earlier every year. Partly because of the shopping we feel pressured to engage in and partly because of the inevitable bombardment of...stuff.

We have enough stuff and I have enough stress so this year we just aren't doing it. 
For the first time ever I’m doing away with the polite “oh, you don’t have to get us anything” because that doesn’t actually mean anything. We have a fairly definitive list of things we would like across varying budgets and we are letting people know. It’s mostly stuff that we need, things that will make our lives that much easier. Things like stock pots and storage boxes for us, swimming lessons and tickets for our 3 year old.

We have warned people that if they don’t tell us something they want they won’t get anything, because we are done buying gifts for the sake of gifting.

Gift wrap is out the window, if I…

Moving house with a little one? Here's 5 top tips to keep your sanity

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It's all go here in the Piper household as we're just about to move house. Given that this is our third house move in 2 years, you'd think we'd be seasoned veterans by now, but moving with our little one is SO much harder. She needs constant attention, which makes getting the packing done much more time consuming, and I constantly feel like there's something huge I'm forgetting! With that in mind, I've come up with 5 top tips to stop you pulling your hair out on move in day.


1 - Get some help By this I mean childcare, whether that is letting Grandma look after Little One for the day, or having an extra family member/friend/extra pair of hands around to look after them in your new home. The first is preferable, as it can be dangerous for little ones to be underfoot with big boxes being moved about. If you have to have your little one in your new place while you're moving, try and keep them away from all the action - it's s…

Having an ovary removed at 21 - My Story

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Laparoscopic right salpingo oophorectomy - I believe that is the "medical term" for it, and on the 08/11/2018 the NHS gave me my very own experience of it.

I should probably take this time to say how grateful I am for the NHS, and how amazing the staff who work for the NHS are, from the paramedics to the porters, HCAs to surgeons... 
every single one made my journey bearable and I am eternally grateful.

I've posted previously about my battles with endometriosis and PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome) and on the 18/10/2018, my consultant and I came to the mutual agreement that it was time to say adios to my right ovary and fallopian tube (the worst out of my two ovaries, as over time my left ovary has been rather kind to me over the years).

However the week of the 01/11/2018 I had a pretty aggressive flare up, it was starting and stopping but I dismissed it, after all... I have no time to be ill, between work and my son, a trip up A&E would never…

Ideas for your Paper Anniversary

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Mine and Jamie's first wedding anniversary has been and gone (I had planned on publishing this on the anniversary but I've become a bit unreliable with blog things lately as life is getting in the way!) and so I thought I would share the ideas I had before FINALLY deciding on my first anniversary gift to my darling husband.

I should say, I'm a bit cringy when it comes to these things. My Paper Anniversary means that the gift should be Paper too! But anyway... here are the gift ideas I came across on my search for the perfect present!

1. Tickets

More often than not after having kids, you don't really get the time to have a good old night out with your significant other. So... the FIRST thing I considered was some kind of event ticket.

BUT I didn't want to wait absolutely months for the event - Jamie is still not home yet from Afghanistan so we've missed our actual anniversary. With a bit more pre-planning I maybe could have found an ev…

What Hyperemesis Gravidarum meant for me

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This week, I spoke to my lovely friend Becki about her experience of Hyperemesis Gravidarum. For those of you who don't know, around 10,000 women in the UK suffer from Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG) every year. It is often dismissed as normal morning sickness in pregnancy, but in reality can leave the women who experience it with PTSD, a torn oesophagus, burst blood vessels and eroded tooth enamel. 





What did you know about HG before you were pregnant?I can remember reading a news article online about the Duchess of Cambridge suffering from it when she was pregnant with Princess Charlotte and feeling sympathy for her, but not really understanding exactly what it was. It was initially described by the media as “extreme morning sickness” which I’ve come to learn is not the case at all. I knew next to nothing and I didn’t think I’d ever need to educate myself. My friend Roo has also suffered with it, but I had no idea to what extent it affected her- it was pure …

The Trampolining Trend and Why it's Actually Amazing!

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If there's one thing little 2 year old Olivia loves, it's trampolines.

Actually, in all fairness, it's not just her! Kiera loves it too and she's about to turn 9. Heck, even I love it and I'm 23!

But there are soooooo many benefits. You might think that trampoline parks are like soft play hell x1000, but they're actually pretty cool and if you haven't tried taking the kids out to one, you most definitely should!

We, as a family, are a bit of an expert at trampoline parks. We seem to have tested out quite a few! There's Airhop in Guildford, Gravity Force in Camberley, and Flip Out in Ashford (they also have locations in Southampton, Basingstoke, Portsmouth, Chatham, Nottingham and more, but Ashford is the only one we've sampled!) and I have actually recently bought an annual membership at Gravity Force for me and Olivia! £8 per month for unlimited jumping, excluding their Gravity Fit sessions, but that's a bargain for …

Daddykind Corner: Being a Dad with PTSD

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After we did a trial run of the Daddykind Corner with my lovely husband putting up with me interviewing him for the sake of the blog and for all of Daddykind, we present to you....

VOLUME 2!

I am very pleased to introduce our good friend Darren, who has had his fair share of mental illness and has some good techniques and tips for bringing your children up aware of mental health and how to take care of it.

Darren uses his own experience to coach other men through mental health problems and other mental blocks, so he's pretty qualified to share his thoughts on how you can move on from mental illness and be the best parent you can be.

I'm so thrilled to feature this post from Darren because we all know how dire mental health provision is and how badly it affects men in particular. Please if any mums or dads are reading this and think they need help, contact your GP, the Samaritans or your local out of hours team if you feel you are in crisis.
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Dear Fellow Mama... We all NEED to let our hair down!

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One thing I always feel really strongly about is when mums get criticised for going on a night out. Obviously, I'm not saying every week, but once in a while, I think it's really important that mothers are given the opportunity to go out and let their hair down.

I recently got criticised for going out once/twice a month with friends, and my argument to this is I work full time (plus overtime), as well as having 'mum duties'. I honestly believe Mums need a night out once every now and then for their wellness - they need that time to switch off and just have a night off.

I really feel for celebrities, stuck in the lime light, who get harshly judged for going on a night out when they do, because as if being a mum isn't hard enough? God forbid they go out and let their hair down.

I definitely feel that over the years society has almost gone back in time when it comes to motherhood. There is this barbaric idea that we're stay at home hous…