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A Reflection and Hopes for the Future

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As my daughter’s 2nd birthday approaches, I’ve found myself reflecting on the last 2 years as a mother. Things I could have done better, times when my daughter made me so proud and times when I felt like giving up.
In the 2 years Evie has been here, she has grown so much and made me the proudest I have ever been. Sure, she has her days but I wouldn’t change her for the world.

Things I wish I had done better:
• I wish I had taken more pictures with her. I have thousands of pictures of Evie but very few with me and her, and the ones I do have are unexpected selfies with her looking very bewildered.
• I wish I had done more with her. We spent a lot of time at home or at grandparents houses, so going out and doing more things with her would have been lovely!
• I wish I had more patience with her. I found myself getting frustrated if she wouldn’t feed, if she was misbehaving or just generally having a bad day. She was probably not even that bad but at time…

Everything You Need to Put in Your Birthing Plan

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I wanted to be sure that I had a concrete copy of my birthing plan, I thought that they'd be no better place to keep it than our 'Mummykind' blog . A plan is just that, rough guidelines of what we wish and for what we want to happen. Even if I didn't get all of my birthing plan, I found that having one was good for my anxiety, especially in regards to being Strep B positive. You might even find this helpful as a template for your own birthing plan!  Birthing Plan Important things to note- I am due to have my baby on the 02/02/16.I am a high risk pregnancy, due to SPD, increased blood pressure, hypothyroidism, PCOS, weight fluctuation and spinal injury (1 x herniated and 2 x prolapsed spinal discs)I am STREP B POSITIVE. Please treat me during my labour to prevent this from making my baby unwell.  Environment-  I plan to give birth in the William Harvey Hospital on the labour ward.I am expecting to have to stay in overnight.Where it is possible, I…

15 Minute Vegetable Rice

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Before we get to the nitty gritty let me just say this; I HATE recipes. They always have some obscure thing that isn't sat in your cupboards or one ingredient that’s crazy expensive and occasionally require you to have a very large piece of equipment that can only be used to do one very specific task. So, this isn’t a recipe as such - it’s an idea. A beautiful, lazy dinner idea that you can feel great about.

You will need:
A chopping boardA knifeA saucepan with a lidA hobRunning waterMaybe a cheese graterA measuring jug (and yes, you can use a baby bottle to measure, no judgement)Kitchen scales or cup measuresSieve or muslinRice (I recommend basmati but long grain is fine)Assorted vegetablesHerbs and spices of your choosingStock cube
You can put any vegetables you like in this, if they have a longer cooking time like most root veg then grate them and if they’re fast cooking then chopping is fine. I like to buy onions, cabbage and carrots, prep them and free…

The ups and downs of baby led weaning

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Our weaning journey began what feels like a million years ago, but it was actually only 10 months ago.

My experience of weaning Olivia may have been very different to others' experiences, but I think that some of the worries and concerns would be the same as any other mum starting to wean their little monster!



At four and a half months old, Olivia was so interested in everyone's food. She was rolling and pulling herself along the floor, and could sit up all by herself. She also had a habit of putting EVERYTHING in her mouth, and trying ever so hard to pinch my food and eat it, so her hand eye coordination was good enough for weaning too. But I didn't feel ready.

My baby was giving me all of the signs to say that she was ready to wean, and so the day before she was 5 months old, she had her first rusk. I watched her like a hawk, terrified that she would choke on a bit of it, but she was absolutely fine and she loved it.

That was the beginning, an…

Bleeding in pregnancy

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Bleeding in pregnancy can sometimes be referred to as PV bleeds 
Around 20-25% of women will experience PV bleeds in their first trimester, whereas bleeding in the second and third trimester is less common.

Bleeding in early pregnancy can be a sign of either miscarriage or an ectopic pregnancy. Whereas bleeding in later stages of pregnancy can have different meanings.
The most common bleed is known as an “implantation bleed” which is when the fertilised egg implants itself into the lining of a uterus. An implantation bleed is discharge or spotting and is usually pinkish or dark brown, implantation bleeding tends to only happen will the egg is attaching itself into the uterus, it may last anything from a few hours or 1-2 days.
I was 27 weeks pregnant when I was admitted to hospital with abdominal cramps and PV bleeds, my little boy's chance of making it to his due date was cut short as the doctor told me the SCBU at our hospital was full and I was being p…

Baby Bonding Guilt

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When you're pregnant, people try to prepare you for the birth. They tell you about their birth stories, some of which may be more like horror stories to a first time pregnant mum! They ask you your birthing plan. They even tell you that you won't sleep properly again, or at least for 18 years...

But no one prepares you for what I found a real struggle
...the bonding.

You spend your 9 months of pregnancy preparing. You buy all the bits you're going to need, you stock up on what feels like, (but never is), more than enough nappies and baby wipes. You plan and sort out a welcoming nursery. You prepare the hospital bag and write your plan with the midwife. You get excited! This little baby is going to complete you!

But what if no matter how much you want this baby, no matter how much you have planned and no matter how much you want to love this baby.

What if when they're born you don't feel anything?

I hope that by talking about  it I can en…