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What Hyperemesis Gravidarum meant for me

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This week, I spoke to my lovely friend Becki about her experience of Hyperemesis Gravidarum. For those of you who don't know, around 10,000 women in the UK suffer from Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG) every year. It is often dismissed as normal morning sickness in pregnancy, but in reality can leave the women who experience it with PTSD, a torn oesophagus, burst blood vessels and eroded tooth enamel. 





What did you know about HG before you were pregnant?I can remember reading a news article online about the Duchess of Cambridge suffering from it when she was pregnant with Princess Charlotte and feeling sympathy for her, but not really understanding exactly what it was. It was initially described by the media as “extreme morning sickness” which I’ve come to learn is not the case at all. I knew next to nothing and I didn’t think I’d ever need to educate myself. My friend Roo has also suffered with it, but I had no idea to what extent it affected her- it was pure ignorance. 

 What treatments…

The Trampolining Trend and Why it's Actually Amazing!

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If there's one thing little 2 year old Olivia loves, it's trampolines.

Actually, in all fairness, it's not just her! Kiera loves it too and she's about to turn 9. Heck, even I love it and I'm 23!

But there are soooooo many benefits. You might think that trampoline parks are like soft play hell x1000, but they're actually pretty cool and if you haven't tried taking the kids out to one, you most definitely should!

We, as a family, are a bit of an expert at trampoline parks. We seem to have tested out quite a few! There's Airhop in Guildford, Gravity Force in Camberley, and Flip Out in Ashford (they also have locations in Southampton, Basingstoke, Portsmouth, Chatham, Nottingham and more, but Ashford is the only one we've sampled!) and I have actually recently bought an annual membership at Gravity Force for me and Olivia! £8 per month for unlimited jumping, excluding their Gravity Fit sessions, but that's a bargain for …

Daddykind Corner: Being a Dad with PTSD

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After we did a trial run of the Daddykind Corner with my lovely husband putting up with me interviewing him for the sake of the blog and for all of Daddykind, we present to you....

VOLUME 2!

I am very pleased to introduce our good friend Darren, who has had his fair share of mental illness and has some good techniques and tips for bringing your children up aware of mental health and how to take care of it.

Darren uses his own experience to coach other men through mental health problems and other mental blocks, so he's pretty qualified to share his thoughts on how you can move on from mental illness and be the best parent you can be.

I'm so thrilled to feature this post from Darren because we all know how dire mental health provision is and how badly it affects men in particular. Please if any mums or dads are reading this and think they need help, contact your GP, the Samaritans or your local out of hours team if you feel you are in crisis.
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Dear Fellow Mama... We all NEED to let our hair down!

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One thing I always feel really strongly about is when mums get criticised for going on a night out. Obviously, I'm not saying every week, but once in a while, I think it's really important that mothers are given the opportunity to go out and let their hair down.

I recently got criticised for going out once/twice a month with friends, and my argument to this is I work full time (plus overtime), as well as having 'mum duties'. I honestly believe Mums need a night out once every now and then for their wellness - they need that time to switch off and just have a night off.

I really feel for celebrities, stuck in the lime light, who get harshly judged for going on a night out when they do, because as if being a mum isn't hard enough? God forbid they go out and let their hair down.

I definitely feel that over the years society has almost gone back in time when it comes to motherhood. There is this barbaric idea that we're stay at home hous…

Is Halloween More of a Trick than a Treat?

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This year has been the first so far that Olivia has been able to properly enjoy Halloween. It's been so exciting! For weeks she has been asking to put her Halloween outfit on, she knew she had Halloween parties to go to and was super excited for those too!

On Saturday, we drove back home from Nanny's house and arrived back in Aldershot at around 1pm. FOR FIVE WHOLE HOURS SHE WAS ASKING TO GO TO THE GOD DAMN PARTY!!!!!

But that's another story (look out for 'What to do when your kids drive you absolutely bloody insane').

One thing I won't do, however, is take her trick or treating.

Maybe it's my job (I'm exposed to people who do truly unthinkable things to their own children, let alone anybody else's!), or I'm just a horrendous cynic for all things that are actually nice, but the whole premise of trick or treating for children really terrifies me. For now, she is not old enough to understand 'stranger danger', …

Perfect Puppets Giveaway - just in time for Christmas!

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Here is your chance to win one of our favourite products from the fabulous Fiesta Crafts



"Children who love story time will adore these hand and finger puppets which have been beautifully designed to spur on even the wildest of imaginations. Reflective of the key characters in two of our most treasured children's stories, one large hand puppet plays a key character supported by a series of embroidered fabric finger puppets to make the retelling of these classic fun and fully interactive! Not only is it a great toy for individual play, it is also designed to encourage role playing with others - improving confidence and social / communication skills. The finger puppets can be stored in pockets on the hand puppet after play making it easy to keep the whole set together in one place.


Beautifully made and thoughtfully created, the hand puppet and finger puppet sets which will stimulate and entertain, encouraging children to retell classic stories in thei…

Our Favourite Fiesta Crafts toys!

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Fiesta Crafts create traditional toys with fun contemporary twists! They design and manufacturer toys that help children to develop their creative, imaginative, communication and language skills. Here are some of Mummykind's tried and tested favourites!

Push N Roll Toys...



For walking, for crawling - a perfect developmental toy. The dinosaur push n roll along is beautifully colourful, sturdy and fantastically crafted. The Push N Roll Along toys are designed to be the perfect play toy for small children- supporting and encouraging them as they develop from sitting to crawling to walking. It comes with a detachable wooden rod that inserts easily into the back of the toy. The Push N Roll toy can be rolled (sitting or crawling) or pushed (walking) via the wooden rod with an easy-to-grip  handle. This 2-in-1 toy with its moving parts will keep little ones greatly entertained. The bright colours and attention to detail are sure to make this toy a much-loved addi…

Why being a step-parent is harder than being a parent...

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When I met my husband, he already had a 3 year old daughter. It was never a problem for me - even though I had only just turned 18, I was possibly more maternal then than I am now after having my own daughter! However, the minute I mentioned our relationship to, well, anyone, I was told not to go near him, he had baggage, blah blah blah! I'm pretty sure my "baggage" is worse, and it doesn't come in anywhere near as cute packaging as Kiera - how can a child be "baggage"?

I'd always grown up around children (being the eldest of 5); I had an almost maternal bond with my youngest siblings, too. But even that could not have prepared me for the absolute shit storm that came hand in hand with becoming a step-parent.

Kiera was possibly the most adorable little 3 year old I'd ever met - that's probably why Jamie knew that he could get me to go out with them both if he just sent her my way asking me to take her to the park with…

Tips and tricks for tummy bug troubles

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Unfortunately, it's the time of year where stomach bugs are rife. I was recently in the hospital twice in the space of two days, as my little one had a severe case of gastroenteritis. While I was there, I had many in depth conversations with paediatricians, nurses and the matron, who gave me many materials and ideas about the prevention and management of gastroenteritis, and how to recognise the signs of dehydration.


Gastroenteritis (or more commonly known as the 'tummy bug') is an infection of the intestines and stomach which causes vomiting and diarrhoea (D&V). It is often caused by infections like the norovirus, or rotavirus, though it can also be bacterial.
D&V caused by tummy bugs is common in children younger than 5, however lots of diarrhoea and vomiting can cause dehydration, which is a serious complication. This is unusual, and most children can be cared for at home following advice from a qualified healthcare provider.  In most cases, diarrhoea usually la…